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Crossdresser SO FAQ

March 17, 2011

Writing this blog, while exploring my own thoughts and feelings around cross-gender expression, has given me the opportunity to meet a lot of people and educate myself quite a bit on the topic. I regularly see comments to stories that are posted here, and receive emails from both crossdressers and their partners looking for answers [...]

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Transgender Laser Hair Removal

December 12, 2010

One of the single biggest things you can do to soften your male facial features is to get your beard removed. Spend a few minutes browsing any transgender discussion forum, or talking to any transgender MTF friend you have and they’ll tell you this is a huge part of passing as a woman in public. Let’s explore how to do laser hair removal the right way!

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Gold Seal Breast Forms Review – TBFS

November 22, 2010

For MTF crossdressers or transgender individuals, breast forms can really help with “passability”. Not only do breast forms add weight to your chest, which in turn naturally causes the shoulders to settle back into a more feminine position, but they also visually add curves to an otherwise masculine frame that can help a person blend [...]

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Cross Dress for Less

November 16, 2010

Keeping up one wardrobe can be difficult and expensive, let alone keeping up both “boy” and “girl” versions! When it comes to crossdressing, many girls will need to find ways to build their wardrobe in ways that are as cheap as possible. Here are some great tips on how to keep your crossdressing budget under control, and still have a nice wardrobe of options!

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World’s Best Mom?

November 8, 2010

Lately, we’ve been hearing a lot in the news about kids being bullied (sometimes to suicide) for being gay. But I think this story illustrates that this isn’t just an issue with “kids”, but a problem that originates with homophobic and mean spirited adult (parent) bullies. In this case, none of the kids had any problem with the boy, it was the adults that were the bullies.

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The Crossdresser Blues

October 25, 2010

Depression is the single most prevalent mental health issue in the world. An astonishing 10% of the U.S. population deals with at least mild depression, but among the transgender population this figure is much higher. The sad thing is that most people don’t actually seek help with their depression because of the stigma attached to [...]

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The Most Wonderful Time of the Year

October 18, 2010

Halloween is the most wonderful time of year for crossdressers. It’s the ONE day out of the year that society allows boys to dress like girls and not risk being ridiculed or worse. And it’s a great opportunity for couples to get in the spirit together and go out and have a good time. Here are some great tips on how to make it work!

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The Great Pantyhose Debate

August 24, 2010

Whenever I wear a skirt or a dress I almost always wear either pantyhose or leggings of some kind. But recently I’ve been paying attention to a very vocal debate about whether or not pantyhose are acceptable anymore as a part of one’s wardrobe. In this post, we look at the debate and try and figure out how it applies to crossdressers or transgender people.

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Ten things you can do to feel more feminine

July 27, 2010

Over the last few years I’ve been exploring ways to express my feminine side, even though I have had to spend most of my time in ‘boy mode’. I’ve discovered there are a number of things that a transgender person can do to feel more feminine, without disrupting work or their social life (assuming one is in a situation where they must continue to present in ‘boy mode’). Here are some things I’ve learned along the way.

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Funny about shoes

July 2, 2010

Recently my parents came up for a visit for a few days. They had been planning to take an Alaska cruise for years with some close friends of theirs and finally decided to make it happen. Before leaving, each of them wanted a new pair of shoes for formal night but couldn’t find any they liked in stores. So I dug into my closet and found them each a pair that they loved!

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